Let's bust the child abuse myths
Myths versus Facts
Myth
Does reporting a child or family to 'social services' mean the child will be removed from their family immediately by social workers?
Fact
No. Sharing your concerns with a local authority does not mean a child will be automatically taken into care.
Myth
It's only child abuse if there's physical or sexual violence
Fact
No. Child abuse also includes emotional abuse and neglect. Many children and young people who suffer from abuse are likely to experience more than one type.
Myth
People know it is me that reported
Fact
When you report to your local children's social care team you will be asked for your details and can discuss if you'd prefer your details to be kept private.
Myth
It's not my job to report child abuse - that's for teachers or professionals to handle.
Fact
No. Keeping children safe is everyone's responsibility.
Myth
Child abuse doesn't happen in my neighbourhood, I live in a good area.
Fact
Child abuse and neglect can occur anywhere.
Myth
It's best to wait until you're absolutely certain you have firm evidence before reporting child abuse.
Fact
No. You don't have to be absolutely certain about your suspicions. If you feel something's not right, talk to your local children's social care team who can look into it.
Myth
If the child doesn't tell someone about the abuse taking place, it cannot be that serious.
Fact
No. It is difficult for children and young people to tell someone about the abuse and neglect that is happening - they may show signs in other ways.
Myth
Children are just attention seeking when they act up
Fact
No. Changes in behaviour are one of the key signs that a child may be suffering from abuse or neglect
Myth
Children have lots of adults they can turn to for help if they are being abused.
Fact
No. Children find it extremely difficult to ask for help from anyone if thy are being abused. This is particularly if they are being manipulated by the abuser or if they think they won't be believed.